soo...i've been busy. teaching in this heat is more exhausting than usual. and for those who know...teaching can be exhausting. last week i didn't do much in the evenings. not by choice either, just becuase we are so far out from town there really isn't much to do in the evenings!
needless to say by wednesday night i was a little restless. i was ever looking forward to thursday when i knew that i would be taking a trip into bangkok to see the temple of the golden buddha! we left from school. brendon (one of the canadian students from STB) came with kwang and pijai and i (pijai, if you remember, is what i call my homestay mom). after talking to brendon and getting the sense that he was as restless as i, i invited him along. checking it with pijai of course. we went to the temple and then wandered around china town. then we went for chinese food. after dinner, we wandered around a bit more. crowded streets, markets everywhere. back in the car, pijai then took us for a bit of a night tour of bangkok. we drove by the grand palace and then the democracy monument. kwang was having trouble explaining to me what is was and when i returned to the car from taking my photo, kwang was on the phone with teacher bo. kwang's mom had called her so she could explain it to me. i could only smile. they are so overly thoughful. and all the time too! anyway, i discovered that it commemorates the passing over of control to the government and people. the king gave up his absolute power. before that there had been much bloodshed, and so it serves to remember those who lost their lives in the fight for democracy as well.
onward to the market. we drove through the night flower market. flowers and food only. the night bazaar takes up blocks elsewhere and i had yet to discover that! but this one was pretty darn formidable! after that it was to the monument to king V (don't recall his name, sorry). around the monument about 150 people or so were gathered and scattered. it was after eight and dark (it gets dark around seven here). people were lighting candles, bringing flowers and wreaths to show respect. others were camped out on blankets with tables of food. somewhere music was playing. cars would park and more people would show, others, finished showing their respect, would leave. there were even dancers and drums, though they were taking a rest on their blanket at that point. i asked kwang if something special was going on. she said "no" and that people gather there like that EVERY NIGHT. she told me i should see the place when there is a festival. how devout. how cool. king V was very important in establishing the laws of thailand for the people and they wish to always show their respect.
by another wat (temple) with a giant swing outside. and i mean giant. it must rise about 75 to 100 feet. it's not used today, but years ago, during festivals, people would swing on it as part of a tradition. apparently too many people died though. hmmm..
friday. after school kwang and two school friends of hers and i went to the colourful little market by her house here on the river. i didn't buy anything. but winding and weaving my way through the stalls was quite the experience. back at home, pi noi had company and we awardly worked our way through a conversation.
saturday it was off on a tour with rene to kantanaburi. we visited the POW museum, where many many canadian, australian, us and british forces perished. not to mention local thais who were taken over by the japanese and forced to labour building the bridge over river kwai. an eery place. we visited the cemetary and the bridge and also mananged to fit in an elephant ride, which i think was jessica's highlight thus far.
that night i stayed in bangkok while the rest of the students went back to their homestays. i just needed to get away for a bit. kwang had wanted me to attend a birthday party with her on sunday, but i maintained beforehand that i "had to check with rene". going to a 15year old's b-day was not something i wanted to do. i love the family, but i didn't want to insult them. they don't really understand the concept of wanting "space" and they can easily take it the wrong way. originally i was going to stay at a hotel, but tik offered for me to stay at her place. i went to her house and me her mom and dad and cousin and cousin's husband (the latter two who were visiting from california...they had met when the husband was here teaching english many moons ago...and he speaks thai very well!). tik and i had hit if off. we had both lived in cambridge and had much fun reminising. she and i went to the night bazaar and she helped me bargain for a "thai price" rather than a falang price (falang=foreigner). i picked up a lot of stuff. she told me some friends were going to have some drinks at sukimvit road so we headed there. she hadn't been able to get ahold of her friend, but we went anyway. poor tik didn't really know where she was going, and we ended up smack dab in the middle of the red light district (don't worry...it was safe...just really interesting). in fact, we walked into a bar that i later noticed was called "bush garden" i won't say much more.
the next day i went with tik to her coffee shop, to the catholic church and then to central bangkok mall. while tik went off to do some errands, i hopped on the skytrain and subway on my own. i went to a park and wandered around and then it was time to head back to tik's to meet their family for dinner. such hospitality, really. they treated me like family and i am forever grateful. it was a great time and it really was just what i needed. it was nice to have someone my own age to talk to for a while.
and back to the work week. here i sit at home. i'm trying to convince kwang to go to a movie with me tomorrow and bowling with the other canadians on wednesday. we'll see what happens...
so...a bit about the school. the students stand to greet you when you get to class. "good morning teacher" "good morning class. how are you today?" "fine thank you and you?" (always raising their voices so that the YOU is very high pitched in tone!). and they stand to say goodbye when you leave. however, some classes have become a bit slack. i think it is for two reasons. one, we are foreigners and so therefore are not necessarily given the same status as a thai teacher (who, by the way, are VERY respected) and two, well, what we do in the class is soooo different, particularly because we are working in groups and not rows, that i think they lose some of their otherwise quiet and subdued behaviour! i have managed to accumulate some gifts, though not as many as the boys! they keep giving out their emails and such. i actually just discovered that they have been chatting it up on msn with girls from the school. hmmm...i might have to talk to them about that one. can't that wait until we are finished teaching? no wonder they are actuing like goofs. but they are really enjoying the fame. so much so that i think they too are losing some focus. i had to have a bit of a pep talk with them today. we'll see what tomorrow brings.
the politics at the school are crazy. i won't go into detail, but gossip is big. i can't count the number of times i've been approached by a teacher asking, "is this true?" they are very swayed by outside families and very careful about speaking their mind in front of the principal.
on the way to school every morning, we stop for a minute at pijai's parents place so that either kwang or git can run in and get some money. i find this quality time somewhat amusing. as neither of them wants to be the one to go up to the house. and all they do is "take the money and run."
my neighbourhood is a concret jungle of sorts. it's hard to describe the housing, but for the most part, they are three or four story narrow apartment blocks. the bottom floors are all garage doors, and that is about as wide as the apartment is. for the most part, families choose to run a business, a market of sorts, in this garage space. did i mention there are markets everywhere! then the family lives in the floor above the garage. some are actually used for cars, though not many. i asked kwang about this, because these apartments really are everywhere and i was curious. she said for the most part there will be many family members living together, extended family and such. also, children stay at home until they are married pretty much. tik still lives at home. that's why i think she loved living in cambridge so much when she was there.
there really is no middle class here. there are poor and rich it seems. you have or don't have. every morning i see the monks making their rounds and think that everyone should become a monk, b/c then they are taken care of! but this is not to say that they are not happy. they seem to know how to be happy with very little. in fact, on our way to chang mai i saw something that made me chuckle. along the side of the road, there was shack after shack built along farm land. all of a sudden i see this guy standing out in front of his 60inch plasma screen tv. it was outside but covered. it made me smile. becuase behind him stood a very simply house.
also, there is very little free space here. on all the road trips i have noticed that there is not a lot of unused space. little houses dot the landscape continuously. i mentioned this to rene and it really is simple. there are a lot of people in thailand! so it's not like road trips in canada, where you drive for miles with nothing but natural scenery.
and..well..i'm going to go now. it's almost dinner. hope you enjoyed my dribble.
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